5 Ways Your Fuckery Is Getting In The Way of The Next Level of Your Success
What Fuckery Is Stopping You From Real Innovation/Change
Fuck this, I have to work at it?
Fuck that. You are reliable to create quick results.
You can zero in on a problem and create the solution faster than those around you.
You are a puzzle-master, and you have been smart and responsible all of your life.
You have a secret and you hope that nobody notices that you feel lazy. I get that. I get you because I get me.
I do the same shit, as do the vast majority of my clients.
2. Fuuuuuuckkkk I’ve never been good at that, I’ll never create that
Cool. I dig your story about how you may have given a thing some effort and you didn’t create the result you intended.
I’ve done that too. But only about 999 times.
You, me, and most of my clients...all of us, we didn’t know that we needed to check in with our choices. That’s all.
3. Fuck yes what I want is over there, but I keep playing over here. But only forever.
Right. This thing we do. Why do we “human ourselves” over and over and blow up in a shit storm of fuckery?
I’m a first-degree black belt in fighting for my own limitations.
It wasn’t until I decided to do the work to dig into what I want, and what I was willing to do, and what I was willing to NOT DO that I started to create the life I want.
4. Fuck I better know all there is to know out of this shit before I make moves
Oh, you’re a researcher? A leadership and strategy book/podcast/blog/twitter/listener/reader?!
Me too.
Well, I was.
Until I noticed that mainlining all that information was getting me no further ahead.
My bookshelves were bursting, but the life, the business, the relationships I wanted were the same.
With the support of my coaches over the years, I noticed that my resistance was being force-fed by my desire to read and listen to everything “out there” before taking even the first tiniest step forward.
5. Fuck it’s 99% perfect, not fucking good enough
You have an imaginary audience too?
If you’re like me, your audience knows my audience and together our audiences say our stuff sucks so we may as well save some time and totally trash our ideas/writing/art/proposals.